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		<title>By: Valley Voice honored with eight CNPA awards - Valley Voice</title>
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		<dc:creator>Valley Voice honored with eight CNPA awards - Valley Voice</dc:creator>
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		<description>[&#8230;] inequity stories covered perceived double standards around those policies, the Martin family’s claim that they were told “if one more person called [&#8230;]</description>
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		<title>By: Revenues are down. . .what do you do about marketing? &#124; Funeral Director Daily</title>
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		<dc:creator>Revenues are down. . .what do you do about marketing? &#124; Funeral Director Daily</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2020 09:11:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[&#8230;] Turmoil over burial policy at Tulare Cemetery.  Valley Voice (CA) [&#8230;]</description>
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		<title>By: RK</title>
		<link>https://www.ourvalleyvoice.com/2020/05/03/turmoil-over-burial-policy-at-tulare-cemetery/#comment-48042</link>
		<dc:creator>RK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2020 08:06:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Everyone involved in the cemetery should be embarrassed.  No one hands are clean in this.  If your going to have a meeting about this then it absolutely needs to start with a apology from every member of the board to the public(especially the families involved) and a promise to do better.  Re read your handbook guidelines or whatever you have and learn what your role as a board member is.  The cemetery isn’t privately owned.  It’s a public agency and doesn’t belong to anyone on the board so stop fighting each other for control of it.  Stop a never ending blame game as to why it’s not your fault.  It’s everyone’s fault at this point.  The people of Tulare deserve better</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Everyone involved in the cemetery should be embarrassed.  No one hands are clean in this.  If your going to have a meeting about this then it absolutely needs to start with a apology from every member of the board to the public(especially the families involved) and a promise to do better.  Re read your handbook guidelines or whatever you have and learn what your role as a board member is.  The cemetery isn’t privately owned.  It’s a public agency and doesn’t belong to anyone on the board so stop fighting each other for control of it.  Stop a never ending blame game as to why it’s not your fault.  It’s everyone’s fault at this point.  The people of Tulare deserve better</p>
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		<title>By: SoFedUp</title>
		<link>https://www.ourvalleyvoice.com/2020/05/03/turmoil-over-burial-policy-at-tulare-cemetery/#comment-47987</link>
		<dc:creator>SoFedUp</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2020 01:29:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As usual Xavier Avila and his sycophants have a boat load of vacuous excuses.</description>
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		<title>By: Xavier Avila</title>
		<link>https://www.ourvalleyvoice.com/2020/05/03/turmoil-over-burial-policy-at-tulare-cemetery/#comment-47970</link>
		<dc:creator>Xavier Avila</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2020 23:30:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.ourvalleyvoice.com/2020/05/03/turmoil-over-burial-policy-at-tulare-cemetery/#comment-47949&quot;&gt;Love Tulare&lt;/a&gt;.

That’s a good question and I told the Valley Voice the reasons why . Maybe it didn’t seem to them as being important. The reasons are that every service is going to have different circumstances on three  main factors . Factor 1. The number of people attending factor 2 the location of the grave and factor 3 the available roads . I saw one large funeral where everyone was standing next to their cars not sitting inside . The grave was in the middle of a section and to far away from the roads . In that case people are allowed  to get out so they can hear. This section has 4 roads surrounding it so access was good . A funeral where the grave is close to the road the people are  told to stay inside their cars because they could hear with the windows down . The funeral in this article was large but there was only one road so access was terrible so people farther away from the grave were allowed to get out . The people up close had to stay in there cars because the grave was next to the road . To be respectful of people and because of the geography of the cemetery and graves and road access, every service will be on a case by case basis . So in clear terms. If the grave is close to the road everyone has to stay in . If it’s a small funeral than it’s everyone. If it’s a large funeral with lot of cars and the grave is near the road  , the people close to the grave still have to stay in their cars but the people fathers away can get out . If the grave is far away from the road everyone can get out , large or small funeral. A larger funeral is harder to control . It hard to keep track of everyone. This situation is new to everyone. Mistakes are going to happen but no one gets preferential treatment. Thanks for your question</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.ourvalleyvoice.com/2020/05/03/turmoil-over-burial-policy-at-tulare-cemetery/#comment-47949">Love Tulare</a>.</p>
<p>That’s a good question and I told the Valley Voice the reasons why . Maybe it didn’t seem to them as being important. The reasons are that every service is going to have different circumstances on three  main factors . Factor 1. The number of people attending factor 2 the location of the grave and factor 3 the available roads . I saw one large funeral where everyone was standing next to their cars not sitting inside . The grave was in the middle of a section and to far away from the roads . In that case people are allowed  to get out so they can hear. This section has 4 roads surrounding it so access was good . A funeral where the grave is close to the road the people are  told to stay inside their cars because they could hear with the windows down . The funeral in this article was large but there was only one road so access was terrible so people farther away from the grave were allowed to get out . The people up close had to stay in there cars because the grave was next to the road . To be respectful of people and because of the geography of the cemetery and graves and road access, every service will be on a case by case basis . So in clear terms. If the grave is close to the road everyone has to stay in . If it’s a small funeral than it’s everyone. If it’s a large funeral with lot of cars and the grave is near the road  , the people close to the grave still have to stay in their cars but the people fathers away can get out . If the grave is far away from the road everyone can get out , large or small funeral. A larger funeral is harder to control . It hard to keep track of everyone. This situation is new to everyone. Mistakes are going to happen but no one gets preferential treatment. Thanks for your question</p>
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		<title>By: Tulare Is My Hometown</title>
		<link>https://www.ourvalleyvoice.com/2020/05/03/turmoil-over-burial-policy-at-tulare-cemetery/#comment-47969</link>
		<dc:creator>Tulare Is My Hometown</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2020 23:20:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The priest stated at one of the  funerals that he wouldn’t start until they were in their cars. They listened to the clergy and stayed in their cars.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The priest stated at one of the  funerals that he wouldn’t start until they were in their cars. They listened to the clergy and stayed in their cars.</p>
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		<title>By: Barbara Kane</title>
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		<dc:creator>Barbara Kane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2020 22:32:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.ourvalleyvoice.com/2020/05/03/turmoil-over-burial-policy-at-tulare-cemetery/#comment-47932&quot;&gt;Steve Presant&lt;/a&gt;.

Mr. Presant perhaps you should have re-read the last paragraph ...&quot;The underlying issue at TPCD is not that certain families got preferential treatment while others didn’t. The issue is the large amount of distrust and lack of communication between the members of the board, between the constituents and the cemetery staff, and between the Trustees and the people they serve, making setting and enforcing policy almost impossible.&quot;  .... before you posted your comment.  But then again you did validate what Catherine wrote.  I don&#039;t understand why this constant infighting has been allowed to go on for all these years.  So very tired of all the finger pointing at each other and no one seems to be trying to work together. Our tax dollars can be put to better use than to fund this frat house mentality that exists between each and every one of you people.  You all need to be expelled.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.ourvalleyvoice.com/2020/05/03/turmoil-over-burial-policy-at-tulare-cemetery/#comment-47932">Steve Presant</a>.</p>
<p>Mr. Presant perhaps you should have re-read the last paragraph &#8230;&#8221;The underlying issue at TPCD is not that certain families got preferential treatment while others didn’t. The issue is the large amount of distrust and lack of communication between the members of the board, between the constituents and the cemetery staff, and between the Trustees and the people they serve, making setting and enforcing policy almost impossible.&#8221;  &#8230;. before you posted your comment.  But then again you did validate what Catherine wrote.  I don&#8217;t understand why this constant infighting has been allowed to go on for all these years.  So very tired of all the finger pointing at each other and no one seems to be trying to work together. Our tax dollars can be put to better use than to fund this frat house mentality that exists between each and every one of you people.  You all need to be expelled.</p>
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		<title>By: Love Tulare</title>
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		<dc:creator>Love Tulare</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2020 21:48:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There is still no explanation in any of this as to why some were allowed to get out of their cars and some weren’t!!!! WHY?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is still no explanation in any of this as to why some were allowed to get out of their cars and some weren’t!!!! WHY?</p>
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		<title>By: Catherine Doe</title>
		<link>https://www.ourvalleyvoice.com/2020/05/03/turmoil-over-burial-policy-at-tulare-cemetery/#comment-47935</link>
		<dc:creator>Catherine Doe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2020 20:52:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Steve,

Where do you think I got the office manager&#039;s quotes that are in the article? I got them from the office manager, Leonor.

Of course I talked with her. And as you emailed me she left for vacation  last Thursday so I was unable to get an update so you filled in for her as best you could.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Steve,</p>
<p>Where do you think I got the office manager&#8217;s quotes that are in the article? I got them from the office manager, Leonor.</p>
<p>Of course I talked with her. And as you emailed me she left for vacation  last Thursday so I was unable to get an update so you filled in for her as best you could.</p>
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		<title>By: Steve Presant</title>
		<link>https://www.ourvalleyvoice.com/2020/05/03/turmoil-over-burial-policy-at-tulare-cemetery/#comment-47932</link>
		<dc:creator>Steve Presant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2020 20:41:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The Tulare Cemetery like many in this region have been impacted by the coronavirus in different ways.  The manager and staff are doing their best to respond to the changes affecting burials at this difficult time in response to imposed government rules.  There are situations that arise with body and niche burials that require our manager and staff to deal with grieving families with sensitivity, fairness and common sense to the best of their ability.  This is a difficult time for everyone involved in the loss of a loved one.

Last year the cemetery audit committee presented at a board meeting a list of all existing policies.  A burial policy was not included as it does not exist.  Yet Tulare has been burying people successfully for many decades. 
 
My frustration after reading this article is knowing that the Valley Voice never afforded our cemetery manager the ability to comment or give any input in regard to this specific issue.  And it is deplorable that the negative opinion of a board member was actually included in this article to attack our manager.  Attack the board chairman if you must attack someone.

Many in the Tulare area know there are issues with the board communicating and working together. I wish it were different, but it isn’t. Difficulties exist, yet people in the community indicate an affirmation that things are improving.  The majority of the board is focused on doing is what is best for the improvement of the district and Tulare community. This year has seen a remarkable positive change in the operation and appearance of the cemetery.  Increased future staffing, appropriate pay, increased morale, and our great financial status are giving us the ability to secure future bids for long overdue capital improvements to the grounds and buildings.  Positive things are happening. 
  
Steve Presant
Chairman, Tulare Public Cemetery</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Tulare Cemetery like many in this region have been impacted by the coronavirus in different ways.  The manager and staff are doing their best to respond to the changes affecting burials at this difficult time in response to imposed government rules.  There are situations that arise with body and niche burials that require our manager and staff to deal with grieving families with sensitivity, fairness and common sense to the best of their ability.  This is a difficult time for everyone involved in the loss of a loved one.</p>
<p>Last year the cemetery audit committee presented at a board meeting a list of all existing policies.  A burial policy was not included as it does not exist.  Yet Tulare has been burying people successfully for many decades. </p>
<p>My frustration after reading this article is knowing that the Valley Voice never afforded our cemetery manager the ability to comment or give any input in regard to this specific issue.  And it is deplorable that the negative opinion of a board member was actually included in this article to attack our manager.  Attack the board chairman if you must attack someone.</p>
<p>Many in the Tulare area know there are issues with the board communicating and working together. I wish it were different, but it isn’t. Difficulties exist, yet people in the community indicate an affirmation that things are improving.  The majority of the board is focused on doing is what is best for the improvement of the district and Tulare community. This year has seen a remarkable positive change in the operation and appearance of the cemetery.  Increased future staffing, appropriate pay, increased morale, and our great financial status are giving us the ability to secure future bids for long overdue capital improvements to the grounds and buildings.  Positive things are happening. </p>
<p>Steve Presant<br />
Chairman, Tulare Public Cemetery</p>
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